With the Internet, blogging, facebook, myspace, etc. our lives are no longer secret. Used to be that you could actually have a conversation on the phone or in person and nobody else could really listen in unless you wanted them too. Not any more! Seems that we are living in a world of people who want their lives to be on display for all the world to see. Why is this?
It’s strange if you think about it. Why would someone want to put it out there what they were doing every minute of the day or how they were feeling, etc.? Is it for attention? Companionship? I don’t know, but I can only go by why I do it.
1. Facebook; I started using this site for networking. In fact the first 20 people were not only friends, but business associates. After that I found an old friend from high school and once I found her all hell broke loose! People from Elementary School, Jr. High and High School started finding me and I them! It was great! People I hadn’t talked to in over 20 years I was now ‘talking’ too once again. Some just on facebook and some on the phone and even in person! I’ve reconnected with some of my best friends and it’s making my life even better! For so long I hadn’t had a friend in my life and now I have many once again! Now I use facebook to communicate more than networking. It makes me feel wonderful to be able to ‘talk’ to my friends or just find out about how their feeling. I feel like every day I get to be part of my friends and families lives even if they aren’t right here with me. I have to say that facebook is one of the best things that has happened to me, as well as a lot of people, in a long time! But facebook of course has it’s down side as well. I’m sure you’ve all experienced some of this. There are times you might have an opinion and someone takes it the wrong way or is insulted by it. This happens once in a while. Especially with me and my Obama stuff. Egads some people are way to sensitive! But this is very rare and my friends and family understand me and can forgive me. Those who don’t simply aren’t accepted as a friend. If I don’t know you or like you, I just won’t accept the friend invitation. That’s my take on facebook.
2. Myspace; I started using this site to keep an eye on my kids. Soon I had many of my friends and family on it and was just basically using it as a communication tool. I don’t like this site much though. It’s given me trouble in the past and I ended up having to delete my account and making a whole new one because it wasn’t letting me change anything on my page. I basically have my kids and a few friends, but hardly ever talk to them through this site. It’s boring, but easy to use. Yeah, that’s my opinion of Myspace.
3. Twitter; Another site I started out by using just for networking. That’s basically the only reason I use it. I only have a few ‘real’ friends (people that I really know). The other 1000, or so, are people who have lopped onto me for God knows what reason. I hardly ever use this site and find it very boring, but I do still have an account for just in case!
4. Blogging; I blog to state my opinion on my world and the world around us. I still have this right and will use it until they take it away from me. Blogging can be a dangerous thing and is kind of like Facebook, but you are able to use many words instead of a set amount in a box. Sometimes you might say something that might be misunderstood by the reader, or they just might not agree with what I’m saying and they become angry. Sorry for this, but Blogging to me is freedom. Freedom to state how I feel and why. Sometimes I get so angry at something going on in the world and use my words to state how I’m feeling. It’s a wonderful tool for expression. Weird thing is I have many fans who read my blog. Kind of trips me out how many followers I have! I love it though. I don’t mind it, I just wish more would leave a comment once in awhile to let me know what their opinion is on what ever I’m ranting about at the time.
So I think I use these sites as my little outlet to the world. I use it because I can. I’m pretty open about my feelings and thoughts on things. I never hold back. Do I mind that I’ve made my life a little bit of an open book. No, I don’t. I have nothing to hide, and that my friends, is a wonderful thing!
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